Welcome to our curated collection of resources designed to support therapists and domestic violence survivors on their path to healing and personal growth. Here, you’ll find essential reading materials, workbooks, and guides that offer valuable insights and practical exercises to help you or those you support through trauma recovery.

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Recommended Books and Workbooks

Understanding and Navigating Relationships

• Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft: Gain insights into controlling behaviors and how to identify abuse.
• Reclaiming Strength: A Workbook for Survivors of Relationship Abuse.
• The Go-Giver Marriage: A unique perspective on nurturing and maintaining healthy relationships.
• Boundaries by Henry Cloud: Learn how to set and maintain effective boundaries for healthier interactions.
• The Book of No: 365 Ways to Say it and Mean it―and Stop People-Pleasing Forever by Susan Newman.
• Safe People by Henry Cloud and John Townsend: Identify toxic behaviors and learn to cultivate safe, supportive relationships.

Challenging Emotional Distress

• The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A counterintuitive approach to living a meaningful life, focusing on what truly matters.
• The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Enhance your knowledge of DBT with practical exercises focused on mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, and emotion regulation.

Grief

• Finding Meaning by David Kessler: A compassionate guide to understanding loss and finding purpose in life’s challenges.

EMDR Resources for Clients

• Every Memory Deserves Respect: EMDR, the Proven Trauma Therapy with the Power to Heal. An introduction to EMDR, a proven trauma therapy with the power to heal, cowritten by a world-renowned therapist and a patient who experienced transformative relief through EMDR therapy.
• Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy by Francis Shapiro.
• Tapping In by Laurel Parnell. Using tapping as a resource.

EMDR Resources for Therapists

• Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing by Shapiro: A foundational text offering comprehensive insights into EMDR therapy.
• EMDR Therapy Primer: An accessible guide for both new and experienced EMDR practitioners.
• EMDR Toolbox: Practical tools and techniques to enhance your EMDR practice.
• EMDR Scripts: A collection of scripts to streamline and support your EMDR sessions.