What do you do when doing the right thing might put your client at risk?
Dear Colleague,
Mandated reporting is a legal duty. But for survivors of domestic violence, it can feel like a betrayal. We must walk a careful line, honoring our ethical and professional responsibilities while holding deep awareness of the real-world consequences survivors face.
The truth is, reporting can provoke retaliation, loss of housing, or child custody battles.
We report because the law requires us to, but the way we report matters. Your tone, timing, and follow-up can determine whether your client feels empowered or ambushed. Always consider your state laws, but also reflect on the clinical impact.
Mandated reporting in a vacuum can be traumatizing. Survivors deserve preparation and support whenever possible.
I once worked with a client who had been referred by CPS. She had done everything right! She had ended the relationship, engaged in therapy, and stabilized her home. When I explained that a CPS report still needed to be filed, she became visibly upset and even lunged toward the camera.
That moment reminded me that even well-intended transparency can feel threatening when trust is fragile.
Some agencies discourage reporting unless approved by administration. This creates ethical dilemmas for new therapists who may not understand their legal obligations. It is essential to read your state laws, understand the timelines, and protect both your clients and your license. Seek outside supervision or consultation if you need guidance that prioritizes you and your license.
No clinician should have to navigate this alone. Supervision is not optional. It is protective.
If you need a sounding board or peer insight, consider joining our Monthly Free Peer Support Group. And for broader context, the 1 Hour CE on Ethics & DV Survivors explores this topic in depth.
With appreciation for all you do,