April 2, 2025 Dear Survivor, Have you ever felt swept off your feet by someone’s charm, only to feel uncertain and devalued later? Maybe they made grand gestures early on, but as time went by, those moments of attention became few and far between. This experience might feel confusing or even hurtful, but you’re not […]
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March 30, 2025 Dear Survivors and Friends, We see you. Navigating the complexities of an abusive relationship is exhausting and deeply painful. Many survivors carry the weight of emotions like anger, hurt, confusion, and fear, all while trying to protect themselves and their peace. If you’ve found yourself responding to abusive behavior in ways you
Protecting Your Peace – Avoiding the Trap of Reacting to Abuse Read More »
March 29, 2025 Hello Survivors and Friends, You are important! I’m not sure if you needed to hear that right now, but you are important. And I want to take a moment to acknowledge just how much strength and courage it takes to be where you are right now. Whether you’re still finding your way
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March 27, 2025 Dear Brave Survivor, Healing is deeply personal. For those who are survived abuse and trauma, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by expectations or comparisons. You might wonder why your progress doesn’t look like someone else’s or feel frustrated because it seems like you’re moving slower than you think you should. But here’s
Healing at Your Own Pace: Why There’s No Timeline for Recovery Read More »
March 26, 2025 Dear Survivor, Abuse can take many forms, and recognizing the different types is a crucial step toward prevention and healing. The Types of Abuse worksheet is a tool designed to shed light on these patterns, helping individuals understand the many ways abuse can manifest in relationships. It’s so much more than being
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March 24, 2025 Hi there, We know that sometimes, life can feel unbearably heavy. If you’re a survivor of domestic violence or someone who loves and supports a survivor, please know that you are not alone. Healing isn’t a straight path, and it’s okay to move at your own pace. Recovery takes time, and the
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March 22, 2025 Dear Survivor, If you’re here, it means you’ve already taken a brave and empowering step toward creating a safer, healthier life for yourself. Whether you’re gathering information, making plans, or leaving behind a harmful situation, know that you are not alone. This newsletter is designed to provide you with practical tools, compassionate
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March 19, 2025 Dear Survivor, One of the most common questions you might find yourself asking is, “How did I end up here?” It’s not an easy question to face, and it’s one that often comes with self-blame. But the truth is, it didn’t happen overnight. The path into an abusive relationship is often paved
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At the start of a relationship, jealousy might feel like a natural reaction—one that highlights care and attachment. It’s not uncommon for a partner to occasionally feel uneasy when someone of the opposite sex compliments you. But jealousy can morph into possessiveness, leading to a relationship dynamic that feels stifling and overwhelming. Knowing the difference
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Gaslighting is a manipulative behavior by an unhealthy partner.
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