Safety begins not with advice, but with deep, attuned presence Some of the most powerful work we do begins with what we don’t say. Dear Colleague, Survivors often enter therapy already bracing for judgment. They’ve been blamed, doubted, and silenced. Sometimes this comes from the very systems meant to help them. When we meet their […]
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Some wounds don’t show up on the skin, but they still need time and tenderness to heal. Dear Survivor, Healing after narcissistic abuse takes more than time. It takes truth, community, and a deep reconnection with your inner voice. This kind of abuse doesn’t just hurt. It confuses, isolates, and erodes your sense of self.
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How Can AI Support Survivors of Abuse? Dear Survivor, Some tools were built to help, and some were built without you in mind. If you’ve lived through emotional, physical, or psychological abuse, you already know that healing is layered. It’s quiet. It’s personal. And sometimes, it needs to happen in private. That’s where AI can
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Can AI Help with Narcissistic Abuse Recovery? Dear Survivor, After narcissistic abuse, even the smallest decisions can feel overwhelming. You may second guess yourself, over explain, or feel paralyzed when trying to move forward. Recovery doesn’t happen all at once. It happens in tiny steps, and sometimes, support comes from unexpected places. AI and narcissistic
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A trauma-informed lens on gaslighting, manipulation, and power Some clients have no idea they are describing abuse. Dear Colleague, A client shares that their partner constantly “corrects” them, questions their memory, shifts blame and alternates between lavish praise and emotional withdrawal. They might blame themselves, wondering why they’re so sensitive or confused. This isn’t just
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Control doesn’t always come with raised voices or bruises. Dear Survivor, Coercive control is one of the most overlooked forms of abuse. It is a slow unraveling of your autonomy, your confidence, and your voice. It shows up as monitoring, isolation, subtle put-downs, or rules that shift without warning. The goal is not just power.
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Understanding Control in Teen Relationships When parents sense that something is off in their teen’s relationship, it can be difficult to know what to do. Many parents describe feeling helpless or afraid of saying the wrong thing. You might notice your teen’s partner seems overly involved in their daily life, dictates who they spend time
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Control doesn’t always come with bruises. Sometimes, it comes with silence, fear, and shrinking your truth to survive. Dear Survivor, You may not have called it control at the time. Maybe it looked like jealousy. Or concern. Or the kind of love that just wanted you “safe.” But if you ever felt like you had
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Love doesn’t just disappear when someone causes harm, and that can be the hardest part. Dear Survivor, If you’ve ever found yourself missing someone who hurt you, or wondering why you still love your abusive ex, know this: you are not alone, and you are not broken. This is one of the most common and
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Many of us never expected that our deepest challenge would be emotional depletion. Dear Colleague, We entered this work to make a difference. And we are. But sometimes, making space for trauma day after day takes more from us than we realize. I’ve spoken with countless providers who describe feeling detached, irritable, or numb after
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