April 14, 2025 If you’re anything like me, you start with research. Before exploring deep therapeutic work, I wanted to understand what I was going through. I read anything I could get my hands on, desperate to make sense of my experience. Books became my lifeline. I’d identify, highlight, and reread parts I needed to […]
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April 13, 2025 Healing begins with the small, brave act of choosing to believe in yourself again. What if journaling could be the bridge that helps you rebuild that belief? Dear Survivor, Starting over after experiencing relationship abuse takes incredible courage. Your strength is evident in every step forward, no matter how small it feels.
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April 13, 2025 Resilience is the quiet force that helps survivors rise, even when the odds seem insurmountable. How can we, as therapists, nurture this essential trait in the individuals we support? Dear Colleague, Working with survivors of domestic violence and relationship abuse requires a blend of compassion, knowledge, and unwavering dedication. You see the
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April 11, 2025 Understanding the truth about domestic violence can be the first step toward healing and empowerment. Dear Survivor, The path to healing begins with knowledge and self-compassion. Unfortunately, there are countless myths about domestic violence that do more harm than good, leaving survivors feeling misunderstood or even doubting their own experiences. Today, we’re
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April 11, 2025 Supporting survivors means recognizing the nuanced differences in their healing journeys, especially after narcissistic abuse. Dear Colleague, As therapists who work with survivors of domestic violence and relationship abuse, you know that healing is never a one-size-fits-all process. When it comes to survivors of narcissistic abuse, the trauma leaves unique scars that
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April 10, 2025 Dear Survivors, Where you are right now is exactly where you’re meant to be. Life after experiencing domestic violence or relationship abuse is not measured by a single finish line. It’s a winding, deeply personal path, and every step forward, no matter how small, is monumental. But often, comparison sneaks in, casting
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April 10, 2025 Dear Colleague, Working with survivors of domestic violence and relationship abuse is a profound responsibility. Your ability to guide and support individuals through their healing journeys can transform lives. Healing from trauma is deeply tied to the mindsets survivors develop and the actions they take. By understanding the subtle yet crucial shifts
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April 9, 2025 Hello Survivor, First, I want to take a moment to honor the remarkable step you’ve taken by leaving an abusive relationship. That takes courage, strength, and resilience. You might now be in a place where the external harm has ceased, but if you’re struggling with harsh self-talk or lingering doubts, know that
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April 6, 2025 Dear Survivor, If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, please know this first and foremost: you are not alone. The road you’ve walked has been incredibly difficult, but your strength in getting to this point is truly remarkable. Narcissistic abuse is insidious. It operates quietly at first, wearing down your confidence, your identity, and
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April 5, 2025 Dear Survivor, Rebuilding confidence after experiencing domestic violence or relationship abuse is a deeply personal and courageous journey. If you’ve found yourself feeling overwhelmed by self-doubt, you’re not alone. These feelings might sneak in during quiet moments or even when you’re making progress, making you question your worth or abilities. The truth
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