For survivors, trust isn’t just given — it’s rebuilt piece by piece. Dear Colleague, Helping survivors rebuild trust after abuse is one of the most delicate parts of relationship recovery. When we prioritize emotional safety and empowerment, survivors can learn that healthy connection is possible — and they are worthy of it. 👉 Resource to […]
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Minimizing your pain doesn’t make you stronger — it only makes healing harder. Dear Survivor, How many times did you tell yourself, “It wasn’t that bad”? Maybe you stayed because you thought others had it worse. Maybe you believed love meant forgiving everything. Maybe your abusive partner convinced you that the harm wasn’t real. Gaslighting
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Your intuition often sees the truth long before your mind can explain it. Dear Survivor, In every abusive relationship, there are warning signs — little moments that make your heart race, your stomach tighten, your spirit shrink. Maybe it was the way they mocked your dreams, isolated you from loved ones, or twisted every argument
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Not all abuse leaves bruises — some of the most damaging wounds are invisible. Dear Colleague, Recognizing the signs of emotional abuse is critical when working with survivors of domestic violence and relationship abuse. By identifying emotional abuse early, we help survivors name their experiences and begin the path to recovery. 👉 Resource to Support
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If you’ve experienced domestic violence or relationship abuse, it can be hard to make sense of what you’re going through. You might feel confused, overwhelmed, or question your own reality. These feelings are common—but they don’t change the fact that what’s happening (or has happened) to you is not your fault. Here are 3 simple
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Gaslighting is more than manipulation; it’s a calculated tool of control that leaves survivors doubting their own reality. Dear Colleague, When working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, we often encounter the devastating effects of gaslighting. This insidious form of emotional abuse strips individuals of their self-trust, leaving them in a haze of confusion and shame.
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Sometimes, the hardest part of healing is realizing you deserve better. Dear Survivor, If you’ve been questioning your experiences or feeling like something isn’t right in your relationship, trust that inner voice. One survivor I worked with bravely shared how her partner’s words left her doubting her instincts and second-guessing her reality. Small remarks escalated
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Have you ever found yourself carrying the weight of blame for something that was never yours to bear? When things go wrong, it’s natural to look inward and analyze your role in what happened. But sometimes, this tendency takes a darker turn, especially in the context of abuse. Many people who have experienced abuse find
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April 8, 2025 Dear Survivor, There’s a moment that sticks with me, one I still replay in my mind. I remember standing there, second-guessing everything I felt, everything I saw. My intuition was screaming, but I silenced it. The mistake? I didn’t trust myself. And in the aftermath of gaslighting, that isn’t just an oversight;
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Gaslighting is a manipulative behavior by an unhealthy partner.
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