In an abusive relationship, even technology can be turned into a tool of control.
Dear Colleague,
Survivors are often monitored more closely than they realize. From smart home devices to hidden spyware and GPS tracking, abusers exploit technology in deeply invasive ways. As clinicians, we must assess these risks as part of safety planning.
We do not need to be tech experts. We just need to be informed, attentive, and trauma aware.
Ask your client, “Is this your private device?” and “Do you feel safe using this phone or computer?” These questions open the door to important disclosures. Some survivors do not realize they are being watched until a therapist helps them put the pieces together.
One survivor discovered her phone had been cloned after her therapist asked targeted questions that revealed real-time surveillance.
Communication safety is a core part of ethical care. We can help clients identify which forms of communication are safest. This may mean using secure messaging platforms, opting out of text reminders, or creating a temporary email address for therapy correspondence.
These small steps can prevent significant breaches in safety and trust.
We can also guide survivors through safer browsing habits and encourage using incognito mode when researching resources. For those in shared living spaces, we might explore safer locations for telehealth or use “safe words” for check-ins.
Therapists can and should integrate these strategies into routine care with survivors.
If you want to deepen your approach to tech-related safety concerns, consider scheduling a consultation to work with Catrina. You might also explore the Reclaiming Strength Workbook for client-facing tools.
With appreciation for all you do,